Hanukkah, widely celebrated as the Festival of Lights, commemorates a miraculous victory over oppression and the triumph of faith. While it holds deep meaning for all Jews, Hanukkah has a particularly special resonance for women, largely because of the story of Yehudit (Judith), a heroic woman whose bravery turned the tides during a time of intense struggle for the Jewish people.
The Story of Yehudit: A Heroine from a Priestly Line
Yehudit was a member of the family of cohanim (priests), a lineage deeply connected with the Temple and Jewish leadership. Her story unfolds against the backdrop of a siege by the Assyrian-Greek general Holofernes, whose forces threatened to annihilate the Jewish people. While the military victory of the Maccabees is often remembered, Yehudit’s personal act of bravery added a critical layer of hope and courage that kicked off the long but successful revolt.
The laws of the Assyrian-Greeks was that in this conquered territory of Israel, a bride would be forced to be with the general before her wedding night. This physical and psychological torture of course violated the women, humiliated the whole population, and undermined Jewish families, but was a particular concern for the cohanim who could be wiped out, as a cohen is not allowed to marry a woman who has been with a non-Jew, even if it’s not her choice—and any children from such a union cannot be considered cohanim.
To protect her community and the Jews as a whole, Yehudit devised a daring plan. She approached the enemy camp, gained Holofernes’s trust, and then offered him wine and fried cheese—now remembered through the latkes—until he was heavily intoxicated and sluggish. In his vulnerable state, Yehudit took her opportunity and beheaded him, causing the Assyrian-Greek army to flee in terror and confusion. This act of heroism was instrumental in weakening the enemy and empowering her people to push forward in their fight for survival. She emerged with his head in her grip and called the Jewish people to drive out the invaders.
Yehudit’s legacy as a courageous woman of faith, willing to risk her life for her people, resonates through the ages. Her story reflects both the physical and spiritual battles fought by women throughout Jewish history, and it is particularly meaningful to remember her courage during Hanukkah—a time celebrating miracles and strength in the face of oppression. Unfortunately, these concerns are still not a thing of the past, and Jewish women for all history have connected to her strength.
The Custom of Rest: Honoring Women During Hanukkah
In recognition of Yehudit’s heroism, Jewish women have a custom that makes Hanukkah uniquely special for them. Many women refrain from any form of work, be it paid or in the home, for at least 30 minutes after the Hanukkah candles are lit each evening. This pause serves as a time to honour Yehudit’s memory and bravery, recognizing the essential role that women have played in preserving Jewish tradition and dignity.
This half-hour pause after candle lighting is an invitation for women to reflect, rejoice, and recharge, offering a moment of quiet to sit by the candles and remember how the Jewish people were brought to this moment against all odds. It creates a space that elevates the lighting ceremony from a communal ritual to a personal moment of empowerment and pride. For women, this practice underscores a sense of connection to their heritage, providing a unique connection to feel part of the Hanukkah miracle.

A Celebration of Women’s Strength
Hanukkah, while celebrated by men and women alike, brings forward a story that is particularly significant to women. It is a reminder of the power of bravery, resourcefulness, and faith—all embodied by Yehudit, a figure whose courage left an indelible mark on Jewish history. By taking the time to rest and honour her memory, Jewish women connect with a long tradition of resilience, making Hanukkah a celebration of light, courage, and unique female strength. Hopefully we can all connect to this strength, this Hanukkh starting at sunset December 25 this year.
